Tag: relationships
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Emotional Healing Starts When You Stop Asking If Your Feelings Are Valid
🔍 In Brief: what happens when you’ve been taught to doubt your own emotional reality? Emotional healing becomes nearly impossible when you constantly question whether your hurt is legitimate or if you’re “just being dramatic.” The cost of seeking external permission to feel what you feel can keep you trapped in relationships that slowly erode…
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Emotional Healing: When Protection Feels Like Being Broken
🔍 In Brief: after a difficult relationship ends, many people find themselves unable to connect the way they used to — guarded where they were once open, distant where they were once warm, suspicious where they were once trusting. This shift often gets interpreted as damage, as being “broken” or fundamentally changed for the worse.…
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Emotional Self-Regulation: Why You Attack Yourself When Someone Hurts You
🔍 In Brief: when someone says or does something hurtful, a common response is to feel the pain, then immediately redirect it inward — reading their messages repeatedly, hating yourself, mentally scolding and berating yourself for feeling hurt. This pattern of emotional self-regulation is more common than most people realize, especially for those with anxiety.…
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Emotional Healing: When Others’ Feelings Terrify You
🔍 In Brief: what happens when someone else’s bad mood sends you into a state of terror? When you’ve learned that negative emotions are dangerous and explosive, even normal human crankiness can feel like a threat. This fear of others’ feelings often stems from childhood experiences where emotional expression meant chaos, and healing means learning…
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Identity Crisis as HSP: Why You Were Made This Way
There’s a specific kind of identity crisis that comes with being highly sensitive – a deep questioning of why you exist this way, why you feel everything so intensely when the world seems built for thicker skin. Today I encountered something that made me stop: someone wondering not just what causes high sensitivity, but why…
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When Healing Hurts: Why Setting Boundaries Feels Like Betrayal
There’s this moment in your healing journey when you realize the people who claim to love you the most are the ones fighting hardest against your growth. It hits you like a slap — not the gentle awakening you expected, but a cold, brutal realization that saying “no” to others often means saying “yes” to…