Tag: trauma
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Emotional Healing: When Christmas Gatherings Leave You Feeling Alone
🔍 In Brief: what happens when the most wonderful time of year feels like the loneliest? Emotional healing becomes nearly impossible when Christmas gatherings trigger a profound sense of disconnection — when you’re surrounded by family yet feel completely invisible. The cost of performing holiday cheer while your authentic self remains unseen can be devastating,…
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Emotional Healing: When Protection Feels Like Being Broken
🔍 In Brief: after a difficult relationship ends, many people find themselves unable to connect the way they used to — guarded where they were once open, distant where they were once warm, suspicious where they were once trusting. This shift often gets interpreted as damage, as being “broken” or fundamentally changed for the worse.…
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Emotional Self-Regulation: Why Crying Feels Like Your Only Option
🔍 In Brief: when crying becomes your only emotional response — whether you’re hurt, frustrated, or genuinely angry — it’s not immaturity or weakness. Often it’s a trauma response pattern where your nervous system learned that certain emotions like anger were too dangerous to express, so sadness became the sole outlet for all distress. Understanding…